Discover The Best BDSM Sites.

There are lots of 'meet-up' sites online, but how can you be sure you are joining the site which suits you best? It’s a mine field, which is why we help you by independently reviewing each site and scoring them on important factors. Our top picks are listed below, giving you the best possible chance of meeting someone.

Site We Think Our Score Visit Site
Most Popular

Vibrant BDSM Community, Extensive Search

If you're a submissive or dominant looking to meet similar, there's plenty of choice on this site.

9.9
BDSM Community
Mobile Friendly
BDSM Lovers
No CreditCard, Free Trial
Best On Mobile

BDSM Hookups

Full BDSM community. Caters for everything. Members are very engaged & share knowledge with eachother. Swap pics & chat with other members. Outstanding.

9.5
BDSM Meet-up
Mobile Version
Sub Dom
No CreditCard, Free Trial
Best On Mobile

BDSM Community

Meet-up site for Mistresses and submissives. If you're new to BDSM, this is the site you may want to try. Members share experiences & info via online chat.

9.4
Mistress & Sub
Mobile Version
BDSM Lovers
No CreditCard, Free Trial

Find Someone New To Play With

Aimed at people of an older age group. BDSM for Seniors is a full BDSM community meet-up site. Offers Chat, Swapping photos and Video.

9.0
BDSM Community
Mobile Version
BDSM Seniors
No CreditCard, Free Trial

BDSM Community

Canada's BDSM Community; Swap pics, Share Video, Chat & Meet.

9.7
Local Matches
Mobile Version
BDSM Lovers
Free Trials

Subs & Doms: Our Star Pick.

Subs & Doms is a BDSM Community, Where the only relationship you’ll discover is the one between a Dominant and submissive.

We were pleased to see all BDSM sub-categories within catered for both Dominants and submissives, So regardless of your fetish, you'll discover people in your area who are interested in meeting in person.

Registration Process:

Its free to register and join Subs & Doms. No credit card details are taken. If you want to unlock additional features, there is a paid option. Unlike many registration forms we review, the registration process on Subs & Doms is quick and easy. The registration is two part, but you'll only be able to complete the second stage of registration after verifying your email, which can sometimes go into junk mail, so keep your eye out for it. The second part of the registration process is more in depth, though it only takes a couple of minutes to complete, but having a full profile will give you better results and make it easier to meet people.

Key Features:

The site offers a live chat feature which makes it easy for people to chat in a group, or in private with other members. It's a great way of getting to know people. You also have the ability to add photos to your chat messages, which is great. Interesting if you want to get new ideas, or just to see what people are getting up to in private! We really enjoyed chatting to Dominants & Submissives about their experience on the site. We found members on this site are friendly and keen to sharing their experience. The members we spoke to told us of only positive experiences.

The Liquidity Test:

We tested 100 random postcodes and searched for members up to 10 miles away from our test postcode. We then look to see how many members who are online, and active at anyone time. We run these tests multiple times per day. During peak hours we found Subs & Doms to have a high level of very engaged members.

Member Engagement:

We messaged random members to see the level of engagement. After messaging users directly, we record how long it takes to get a response.

Advertising:

No third party advertising takes place on the site, enabling you to focus on the important thing, meeting someone.

Customer Support:

We tested 10 of the most common customer support request. Everything from 'How do I edit my profiles' to 'I'm not able to meet anyone'. During our tests, we found Subs & Doms support to be very helpful and friendly. Their support is personal (responded by a human) and accurate. Its clear they prioritise the member, and nothing is too much for them. We spoke to customer service and requested a refund, which was hassle free and fast.

Success Rate:

Our methodology is based on probability. We're not looking to form a relationship because we're testing the service, so we strike up conversations with 50 members within a week. From those 50 members, we had 17 solid contacts who we would have been happy to meet.

Summary:

We tested and retested Subs & Doms many times and from the outset we could see the site looked promising. The registration was easy and straight forward compared to similar sites. We registered as as free member as both a Dominant and a submissive, and found it easy to meet our opposites. The chat feature is the standout feature for the site, making it easy to meet others. We were pleasantly surprised how good the customer service was and the easy of the site in general. We had confidence to upgrade to a paid member to receive the full benefits of the site. The upgrade process was safe and secure, at a very reasonable price. If we wanted to meet someone on this site, we feel we could have, which is why we rate this site 'outstanding' and suggest if you are looking for a BDSM contact, you should register!